Going my own way

  Resources   Books   Men too: unspoken truths about male sexual abuse   On being raped by Raymond M Douglas         1)      be assailed by many assailants, not one. (because a man is so strong, there's no way he could possibly be assaulted by one person)   Rape is not always physical violence, and often times a victim would be in a situation where they would not expect it or freeze or was threatened with a weapon. It’s not simple as just a bunch of guys just jumping at you and then assaulting you like you see in Shawshank redemption. Sometimes it is, sometimes it’s not but always the rape can happen even from a single assailant. It’s sad that it implies that a man must be physically strong that he can prevent an attack. No matter how strong you are, you can still be raped because it’s not a matter of strength.   2)      he must resist and be beaten half to death. (bec...

  Most teenage boys did NOT dream of being raped by a female teacher. You do not get to speak for the boys, you do not get to assume what their sexual fantasy is. What you don't realize is that many boys, even before they were teens, even when they were just babies, they were sexually assaulted and raped! There are so many stories of male survivors of CSA and their lives were changed badly, their trust is eroded, their understanding of relationships is damaged and more.  A grown woman "deflowering" a boy is rape. It is rape because he is a minor. Even if he wanted it, it is not ok for her to do that to him. Not to mention that he doesn't understand that this is not a healthy thing either.  To call a male rape victim of a woman a "legend" is a repulsive thing to say.  Sexual abuse plagues every corner of our society, leaving deep scars on countless victims. While the #MeToo movement has brought much-needed attention to the struggles of female survivors, the e...

  Apparently it's misogynistic to want to see evidence and proof of an abuse or rape. She's obviously idiotic to believe that people would be saying "innocent until proven guilty" as a means to say, "I rather believe men, never a woman." that's not how it works and you know it. Imagine if the roles were reversed on women that men can falsely accuse her of things and everyone believes him, just like everyone believes a woman who lies about a man raping her when there's no evidence. 

  My history part 1 1997 - 1999   (I’m just going to tell bits and pieces of my history, I don’t remember too many details or an exact timeline, so it’s kind of scattered.)     (I’m going to talk about my teacher in high school. I want to make myself perfectly clear here, this is not a #metoo, I’m not trying to say she did anything because I don’t remember and I am not sure she did anything wrong. I’m not even trying to say I’m a victim either, because that’s disrespectful and it’s not what I’m trying to do here.)   I don’t think I want to say her name, only that she was a blonde woman teaching at my high school when I started. I was bullied every day for many of my school years. I hated it there. She was the only teacher that was kind to me. She seemed to understand I was upset and having trouble. I also had a school counselor who understood and tried to be helpful.   The thing is, I don’t remember any other teacher trying to take me and ...

 (I put the question mark on par 1 because I'm not sure if I would have more to say. I want to tell all I can, but often find more things I could have added.) For men - Shelters and small houses for male victims of DV, SA and rape. Men who are homeless and/or have been getting away from an abusive situation.  - Support groups for men, therapy that actually takes men seriously and doesn't use feminist dogma to diminish or belittle male victims. - family courts are fairer to fathers who want to be in their kids' lives, ensuring that if the father should pay child support the money goes DIRECTLY to the kids and the wife cannot touch it. - Female pedophiles, abusers, rapists, and killers are taken far more seriously as we do male perps and are sentenced more severely and harshly. - Movies and shows show men in a positive light, stopped making rape jokes, stopped dehumanizing gay men, stopped painting fathers as bumbling morons, and stop making light of male victims or men's...

  What person thinks this? Thinks that a child, below the age of 10 is a rapist? A child, who is not even sexually active.  What FBI data? Has there been any child that ever committed acts of rape? We would have heard of such a thing, except it never happens! Usually, a child gets sexually assaulted or raped, but never commits such an evil act.  "I've experienced sexual acts from 1 digit children?" What? Are you really that dumb to think that a child is sexually harassing you? What did they do? See your boobs? Hug you? said you look cute? What? Kids are kids, they are not rapists and they don't commit rape. The only thing that a child could do in a worst-case scenario is kill someone. But fortunately, it's rare, and usually, something is wrong with their brain.  Some single-digit boys are sexually assaulting, isolating, and killing girls younger than them? You're obviously making shit up and need a psychiatric evaluation because you're clinically insane.  ...