Going my own way

 I don't know you, but only you know yourself. If you're born in America, you have the possible opportunities available to you. It is available to all. If you are someone who thinks that if you're black, or gay, or trans or a woman then you will always be lesser than and have harder than than some straight white man. If that is how you want to play, then play that. Be a victim, because that's all you will ever be. You will never achieve anything, you will never amount to anything because you CHOSE that path. You don't want to do anything to improve your life, you just want to be a victim for the rest of your life.  However, if you want to be a victor, then you will achieve a lot in your life.  You may be thinking, "But I'm poor, I have limited things in life," and whatever your excuse is. Every person in life, no matter what can do something, even if it's hard. But here's the thing, only person that is keeping you down, is yourself. It's no...

 If you think about how people romanticize and glorify the past; the idea that people didn't get so easily offended by everything, that people knew what is a woman, that people didn't just transition their children or start shoving sexuality down their throats, or that we didn't have all these bizarre things going on right now was so wonderful and good. But is the past really that good? Let me put it to you this way, if you're a gay person in the 50s, or the 60's, or hell even the early 90s you would be in the closet. Because back then, even in the 50's you were either arrested just for being gay or you were sent to an insane asylum or conversion therapy. You were murdered, or ostracized by your church and community should they know. Your family disowns you.  Even if you're not Gay but a straight person. Is this really the kind of thing you want to return to? You really think that because of the insane stuff happening now, the 50's would be better?  I re...

  Crime Shows and Gender: A Distorted Reflection of Reality True crime documentaries and dramas have surged in popularity in recent years, captivating audiences with tales of murder, assault, and intrigue. However, a closer examination of these shows reveals a concerning trend: a disproportionate focus on female victims and male perpetrators, with male victims and female perpetrators often relegated to the sidelines of the narrative. This gender bias not only distorts the public's understanding of crime but also has real-world implications for how we address and prevent violence. Research confirms that crime shows frequently feature female victims, particularly in cases involving sexual assault ( First Step Leicester ). A study of popular crime dramas found that male suspects were overrepresented, comprising 31.1% of suspects on Law & Order: Special Victims Unit ( ScholarWorks @ UVM ). Conversely, male victims are often portrayed as murder victims, with a disproportionate numbe...

 What is toxic masculinity? Truth be told? Nothing. It's just a made-up word to dehumanize boys and men and blame them for everything. Why do we need to blame men for every single thing that is wrong in the world? They, the feminists, love to believe that men have power and that all men are responsible for everything. Which is a huge steaming pile of bullshit.  what purpose does it serve to blame men for everything? What do we hope to achieve from this? If we're going to want to fix actual problems going on, then we need to look to what is actually causing them and not blame it on men. Men are not the problem.  This is also something I found from a site on "examples of toxic masculinity." https://www.aurorand.org.uk/news/top-10-toxic-masculinity-behaviours "Top 10 Toxic Masculinity behaviors Being stoic Men are constantly given the message that they must be self-reliant, independent, physically tough etc. Men are told that to be this way will make them successful...

  Imagine if you will a small baby boy just born today. He is perfectly healthy and there’s no issues at all. A doctor or a nurse would take the baby away and have him completely naked. He’s then strapped into a circumstraints. His arms and legs tied down. His penis exposed to the world. The doctor gets the baby’s penis hard and then pries the foreskin apart, tearing it from the glans it was sealed to. The baby screaming bloody murder. Then the doctor inserts a metal tube into his foreskin and pressing it against the glans, tying the base end of the foreskin and then crushing the foreskin and cutting it off. The baby who is still screaming and screaming then passes out in shock. Then the doctor or the nurse brings back the baby to the parents, “your baby slept through the whole thing.” Clearly lying. Then with the foreskin (some claim to just throw it away) but some doctors sell it for profit. 100 baby boys die each year from circumcision. Most of Europe and Asia do not c...

 let's imagine that there is a male driver. He is driving a car. A man and a woman are walking on the sidewalk. He drove up on the sidewalk and ran them both over. Both are alive but are badly injured. Now, in this scenario, many people came to help. Who do they turn their attention to? The woman. Because we focused so much on caring about women (Which isn't wrong), but we ignored the male victim. The news media would say, "Two victims were hit by a car, one is a female." They would focus on the female victim. What happens to the male victim? He gets no attention, no support. Even when he is taken to the hospital too, no media want anything to do with him. Especially when the driver is himself a man. "It is so typical! All men are violent!" There would be outcries and screams about how men are the problem. The male victim tries to say, "I was hit by the car too." They would tell him these things: "Stop distracting the issue from the REAL victi...

  There are a lot of double standards when it comes to between men and women. I’ll make an illustration with some made up characters to demonstrate.   Child sex abuse   Dick is a male teacher. He has had a sexual relation with a 16-year-old girl Amy. By right, he is punished severely for statutory rape. Despite the fact that the said 16-year-old girl liked Dick because he’s a mature adult. (I’m not saying that it was ok in any way just because she liked him) That being said, no one would say, “She got lucky, where was he when I was 16, she must have wanted it,” anything to defend pedophilia.   Jane is a female teacher. She has had a sexual relation with a 16-year-old Andy. She was not punished, and the media calls it “sexual affair” instead of what it is; Rape. And the boy was told he was “lucky.” Andy did not like Jane and did not feel comfortable with what happened. But society will always defend her and glamorize her rather than call her for what she...