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the shows and movies that laughs at male victims of rape and sexual assaults

 1. Guardians of the galaxy (2014)


Gunavian inmate: "Check out the new meat. I'm going to slather you up in gunavian jelly (laughs) go to town" he brushes his gigantic fingers across his face. 


You have a movie that has an inmate threatening to rape a male main protagonist.


2.  Deadpool 2 (2018)


"This doesn't end with us riding into the sunset. it ends with me dying of cancer and you winning the icebox award for softest mouth." 


some mutants fighting, ending up ripping Juggernaut's pants at the butt open, and then having something shoved up his ass. 


3. 2 fast 2 furious 2003


"Don't drop the soap, big homie."


4. Iron man 2 (2010)


"Where will you be watching the world consume me from? that's right, a prison cell. I'll send you a bar of soap." 


5. Sausage party (2016)


"Relax, and open wide." something crawls into his pants. "Wa...was...what are you doing? Dude! That went up my ass!"


A family show... where they make rape jokes for the whole family including the kids! It's hilarious, right?! Hey kids, how about a joke about men getting raped? Hilarious, huh?


6. It's always sunny in Philadephia (2010)


Danny devito's character, "As soon as you drop the soap, they rape your butt. That's what happens."


Yes, we need to make disgusting rape jokes. They have no shame. 


It's always sunny in Phildalephia (2005)


"Pin me down and I try to fight you, you come inside me, you fill me up..."


Yes, sing more songs about being raped, because male victims of rape should be made into comedy instead of being taken seriously. 


7. Family guy. (2011)


Family guy has a lot of male rape jokes and male sexual assault quite often and it ridicules male victims. 


For instance: Peter is trying to get away from a "vapor" that is grabbing peter and violating him.


Family guy (2005) 

"No. Jake, not like this!" Peter screams as Jake rapes him.



8. Conan (2014)


Conan, "Bieber was briefly jailed early this morning, and police report described him as 5'9" and 140 pounds, or as his cellmate puts it, 'just right.'"

Andy: You know..." 

Conan, "He's like a bite-sized snickers."

Andy, "Fun sized."

har, har, har, it's so hilarious whenever men gets raped, right Conan? 


9. Friends (1995)


"Let's do your inseams" some tailor doing measuring of his pants, basically the male character expressed discomfort and confusion, basically telling us that he's basically sexually assaulting him.


But hey, it's funny when men get assaulted, hyuk, hyuk, hyuk.


10. The last o.g (2018)


"They will turn your butthole into a parking garage. Start putting all kinds of cars in there man. Buicks, cutlass cieras, oldsmobiles... someone's gonna put a hummer in there."


11. Louie (2010)


guy putting a whole banana in Louis' mouth, "Now don't bite down. Don't bite down.


12. Horrible bosses (2010)


Kurt, "I can't go to jail. Look at me. I'll get raped like crazy."

"Fuck, me too."

"I'll get raped just as much as you would, kurt."


ah yes, because prison is always a sure way a man will be raped, always. Heavens forbid should people get a clue that you're not always going to be raped in prison and men get raped even outside of prison.


13. dumb and dumber (1994)


Jim carry hides from a guy in a bathroom.

Dumb and Dumber (1994)


Some guy in the bathroom, assuming a trucker, tries to get the Jim Carrey character to kneel down to suck him off. Then after that, Jim carrey sucks his own thumb.


14. Horrible bosses (2011)


A woman brushing her hand against a guy's face .


15. Real Time with Bill Maher (2018)


"He's the one who famously said, 'I'd take a bullet for Donald Trump. Well, now that he's looking at prison time, we'll see if he's willing to take a dick."


Ah yes, because we should always laugh like madmen when men get violated.



16. 82nd academy awards (2010)


"And why does a prisoner drop a soap? 'cause no one wants to do it alone.


17. Get Hard (2015)


"Hands against the prison wall, choking on a mouthful of balls."


Get Hard (2015)


"There's 100% chance you're going to be somebody's bitch. (Grunting. using his hands to stimulate pounding) You know what that is? That's a big ass black man on your pale white ass. You: No, I don't want anymore. stop. that's enough. too late. He done tag the next guy in."

James, looking stupidly pathetic, "Hey listen up everyone. I'm extremely sad. please don't sexually assault me. I'm already too sad."

18. Tenacious D in the pick of destiny (2006)


"He gonna make you his sex slave, you gonna gargle mayonnaise."


19.  rick and morty (2014)


"Rick and morty go to giant prison. you know if somebody drops the soap It's going to land on our heads and crush out spines, morty. You know, it'll be real easy to rape us after that."


20. South Park (2008)


Steven Spielberg and Geroge Lucas raping Harrison ford. 


22. The Cleveland Show (2013)

"What, do you collect vaseline? oh."


Why yes, because we need to keep laughing at men getting raped, Cleveland. 


Also, Cleveland dressed as a woman with makeup, "I'm uh... never going to be the same."


No, when some trauma occurs, it doesn't make you less of a man. 


23. Brickleberry (2013)


A cartoon of an inmate going to rape a smaller inmate, "Ok. Let's do it." and takes off his clothes.


24. Simpsons (2007)

Mr. Burns, "because while you slept, I violated you repeatedly."



25. Paddington (2014)


Paddington "Of course it will, you look very pretty. That's what they say in jail."

This is for kids, folks! This shit is for kids! Think about it for a second! They are telling your kids that prison is where they rape you!


26. the Powerpuff girls (2000)


jojo villain in jail with a giant inmate. "Love is in the air. Can't you just smell it?"


Yes, we need to make disgusting rape jokes for kids to see and hear about. 




27. The amazing world of gumball (2013)


"Did you see what that bear just did to that guy's cherry?"


Hey kids, did you want to see a man be violated for laughs?! Hyuk, hyuk, hyuk!


28. Puss in boots (2011)


"You got any idea what they do to eggs in San Ricardo prison? It ain't over easy."


How raucously hilarious. Good for family entertainment!


29. Carrotblanca (1995)


A character runs and gets himself into jail cell, turns around to see a male inmate and he knew what would happen. 


30. The mask (1994)


The mask character comes in with pipes, presumingly exhaust pipes from cars and jammed them into the two guys who are later wheeled out with it jammed in their asses.



32. Half Baked (1998)



33. 21 jump street (2012)


34. robot chicken


There are countless skits they had that involved male rape.


35. let's go to prison (2006)


John, "Just keep your mouth shut and try not to cry."

Nelson, "It's alright to cry. crying takes the sad out of you."


Films like this is to paint a picture that men aren't manly or tough enough to avoid victimization are pathetic. Especially when a man is forced into a stereotypically feminine role. 


"So what's a beautiful white boy like you doing in a place like this?"



36. That 70's show (2000)


Kelso, "Hey guys, do you think he's anyone's girlfriend yet?"

Fez, "Kelso, he's been in jail for 3 hours. Of course he's someone's girlfriend."


37. Little Nicky (2000)


A Hitler that is dressed in a French maid outfit getting pineapple crammed into his ass. 


38. Wedding Crashers (2005)


A scene with Vance's character getting molested by a guy. Basically painting gay men as creepy predators. Not just mocking male victims but also full of homophobia. 


There's a scene where a girl was sexually assaulting the guy under the table, he was not wanting this but she refused to stop. 


39. The Cable Guy (1996)


The cable guy pressed his nipple on the glass, causing Matthew Broderick's character to get the looks from fellow inmates.


40. Harold & Kumar escape from Guantanamo Bay (2008)


Big Bob, "Ain't nothing gay about getting your dick sucked! You're the ones that's gay for sucking my dick."


41. Eurotrip (2004)


42. Anchorman 2


43. Billy Madison (1995)


"I'm still so horny" and proceed to dry hump a guy.


44. Glee (2011)


45. Fletch Lives (1989)


46. The Maltese Falcon (1941)


47. Skyfall (2012)


48. Withnail and I (1987)


49. Deadpool (2016)


50. New in town (2009)


"Whatever you do to my daughter, I do to you."


Ah yes, the very thing fathers always seem to do is threaten a boy that he will kill him or rape him or whatever. 


51. Bad Boys 2 (2003)


"Ever made love to a man?" Will Smith character threatens a teenage boy.

"No."

"You want to?"

"No sir."


not all sexual assaults are physical, but sometimes verbal like this one.


52. Vice Principals (2016)


"You know what turned out means?"

"No. No sir."

"It's when a straight dude rolls into prison and gets his ass fucked, then becomes a girl. Big boys will come in, push a little boy like you down, maybe stick a textbook in your mouth and go to fucking town. You want that to happen to you?"

"No."

"Yeah, I didn't think so."


very sad how people think threatening young boys with this is somehow productive, but it only creates more problems for him, especially if he did indeed get raped, whether it's in prison or not. What happens afterward is he suffers in silence and has this bullshit replay in his mind, keeping him from being able to speak up.


53. Saturday Night Live (2009)


"You better keep your mouth shut. Or you're going back to the showers. And the only speed you going to reach is 88 dudes per hour."


Hardy, hardy, har, what a loveable joke about threatening dudes with rape. 


54. Half baked (1998)


Oh no, dropping a soap in the shower, real funny. 


55. Naked Gun 33 1/3 (1994)


ooh, another bar of soap dropped! let's have a real laugh!


56. I now pronounce you Chuck and Larry (2007)


Ooh, dropping the soap, in fire department with two guys who are pretending to be gay. Homophobic and ridicule of male victims. Especially since the film was supposed to be accepting of gay men, but it really isn't. It's more like, "Leave them f*gs alone, it's not their fault they're so fucking fruity and q*eer!"


57. The Boondocks (2005)


Another drop soap gag. 


58. Skylanders academy (2016)


Children's cartoons. They sure love putting rape jokes in children's cartoons! Don't you dare talk about LGBT in kids' shows, but do go off about how hilarious rape jokes are to kids! 

"Word of advice. Don't drop the soap."


59. Spongebob squarepants (2001)


Oh yes, a loveable show for kids with SpongeBob telling his pet snail "Doubleoons... don't drop them."


60. I love you Phillip Morris (2009)


61. Death becomes her (1992)


62. Dirty grandpa (2016)


63.  Malcolm in the Middle (2003)


"So I got me a volunteer, huh? Well, let me tell you cupcakes what your first day up in here gonna be like! And don't expect no flowers afterward."


The biggest problem with all these rape and sexual assaults in the media is that 1) No one takes male victims seriously. 2) Gays are portrayed as predatory. 3) Blacks are rapists, big gigantic rapists. 4) It's totally ok to threaten little boys with rape. 5) Making rape jokes in kids shows and family shows is a-okay for some reason. 6) Trying to make criminal justice seem like this is ok is not. It's nothing but childish and petty revenge not to mention ignoring that a lot of people who go to prison either committed minor crimes like possessing weed or are innocent of a crime they didn't commit. 7) Any attempt to justify this by saying it's about breaking taboo is a farce. It was nothing more than cheap laughs and ridicule of male victims, never about raising awareness or trying to reduce rape that occurs to men. 


64. Blue Bloods (2013)


"When I get to see the look of love in a meat wrangler's eye the day I make some spoiled rich kid his new celly."


65. Cop Out (2010)


Draws a dick on the window of an inmate being violated and miming the dick thrusting into the inmate's mouth.


66. Without a trace (2006)


"Do you have any idea what it's like in sing sing for a guy with your limitations? You're going to be the poster boy for the bitch of the month."


67. Law and order: SUV (2008)


68. NCIS (2009)


69. The mentalist (2013) 


"Look on the bright side: in prison, you won't have to pay for dates."


70. big stan (2007)


71. CSI (2014)


72. Inside Man (2006) 


73. Deja Vu (2006)


74. Office space (1999)


"To a term of no less than 4 years in a federal, pound me in the ass prison."


75. The ten (2007)


76. Wayne's World (1992)


78. True Detective (2014)


79. The X-files (1996)


80. criminal minds (2009)


81. Hard to kill (1990)


82. My name is Earl (2006)


83. Buffy the Vampire Slayer (1998)


84. Ace Ventura: When Nature Calls (1995)


Some villain gets raped by a gorilla.


85. Mallrats (1995)


86. The Hot Chick (2002)


87. There's something about Mary (1998)


88. Key and peele (2012)


89. Cameron Esposito: Rape Jokes (2018)


"I'm trying to talk about sexual assault. It's not like that a new topic in comedy. We've had rape jokes forever, but it's just those jokes have usually been like: Rape!" 


90. Hot Tub Time Machine 2 (2015)


91. bulletproof (1996)


92. Seinfeld (1995)


93. Shawshank Redemption 


As much as they aren't mocking or ridiculing Andy who was raped by "the sisters" repeatedly, it still shows him just walking it off and not being affected by it. 


94. Pulp Fiction


The depiction of sexual violence against men in media is a topic that warrants examination. While it is well-established that sexual violence is a serious issue that affects all genders, the ways in which it is portrayed in film and television can have a significant impact on societal attitudes and the experiences of survivors. Unfortunately, many examples of male characters facing sexual violence or threats thereof in popular culture rely on harmful stereotypes and are often played for laughs.

In films like "Guardians of the Galaxy," "Deadpool 2," and "2 Fast 2 Furious," male characters are threatened with sexual violence in a manner that is clearly intended to be humorous. These scenes contribute to a culture in which the sexual victimization of men is not taken seriously and is instead mocked. This can have damaging consequences for male survivors of sexual assault, who may already face barriers to disclosing their experiences due to societal norms around masculinity.

Television shows like "It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia," "Family Guy," and "South Park" have repeatedly used sexual violence against male characters as a comedic device. These depictions not only trivialized the experiences of survivors but also contribute to a culture in which sexual violence is seen as a joke. The use of sexual assault as a punchline can make it more difficult for survivors to come forward and can perpetuate harmful attitudes towards those who have experienced sexual violence.

The film "Get Hard" provides a particularly egregious example of how sexual violence against men is often depicted in media. The movie's plot centers around a wealthy businessman who hires a man to prepare him for prison after he is convicted of fraud. The threat of sexual violence in prison is a constant theme throughout the film, with the character played by Kevin Hart repeatedly describing the sexual assaults that the main character will supposedly face. These scenes are clearly intended to be humorous, but they contribute to harmful stereotypes about incarceration and sexual violence. The film's depiction of sexual violence as something that is inevitable in prison and that can only be avoided through violence or manipulation is deeply problematic.

The depiction of sexual violence against men in media is not only harmful in its own right, but it also contributes to a broader culture in which survivors of all genders face significant barriers to disclosure and justice. By trivializing and mocking sexual violence, these depictions can make it more difficult for survivors to come forward and can perpetuate harmful attitudes towards those who have experienced sexual assault. It is essential that media creators take responsibility for the impact of their work and strive to depict sexual violence in a manner that is respectful and does not contribute to harmful stereotypes.

In conclusion, the depiction of sexual violence against men in media is a complex issue with significant implications for societal attitudes towards survivors. While it is essential to challenge harmful stereotypes around masculinity and to create space for men to discuss their experiences of sexual violence, this must be done in a manner that does not trivialized or mock the experiences of survivors. Media creators have a responsibility to depict sexual violence in a way that is respectful and does not contribute to harmful attitudes. By doing so, we can work towards a culture in which all survivors are able to come forward and seek justice without fear of being mocked or disbelieved.

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