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this is what killed a lot of men: Not being allowed to cry.

  Never tell men never to cry, especially not in front of his woman. This sort of thing is why suicide rate is so high. "I rarely seen men cry" Because society had told him since childhood never to cry. They tell him it's weak and that women don't like it. I don't care what she likes, men are human too. If he feels like crying, then he should cry. If you got a problem with that, then you are the problem! and the fact that people like matt walsh have no clue about how bad it is to demand men never cry. and the fact that women look down on men crying is disgraceful to men. Societal expectations of masculinity perpetuate stigma and discourage men from seeking mental health help, impacting their well-being KevinMD . These expectations create barriers to acknowledging and seeking help for mental health challenges like depression Roots Mental Wellness . Men are more likely to die by suicide than women and are less likely to seek help for mental health issues than women ...

i'm by no means a feminist.

  She should have whatever friends she wants. You being concerned with her have male friends is just you being a possessive idiot.  She can wear whatever the hell she wants. i don't believe in telling people exactly how to dress. To be fair, dress professionally for employment, but at home is fair game.  want to marry and have kids? So what is wrong with not marrying or not having kids?  loves her family and country? Well of course, if she didn't love her family, she probably wouldn't or should eve be with you. "Wants to be a stay at home mom." If that's what she wants, cool. if not, cool too. What if the dad wants to be a stay at home dad? I'm not averse to her working or looking to enjoy her hobbies or chase her dreams.  reads the bible? How about, no? Especially when the bible tells her to be silent and not have authority. The bible is fraught with misogyny.  "Wants to have 5 kids?" ok keep your dick in your pants horny tom, because 1) you wou...

a father of a daughter punched a 13 year old boy

 The violent assault of a 13-year-old boy by his father, allegedly to protect his daughter, has sparked outrage and raises critical questions about parental authority, discipline, and gender dynamics. While the desire to safeguard children is understandable, using violence as a means of discipline is never justified and can have severe consequences ( WHO ). Child discipline is about teaching responsible behavior and self-control, not inflicting harm ( Better Health Channel ). The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends positive discipline strategies that promote healthy development ( HealthyChildren.org ). Corporal punishment, as in this case, is not an effective or acceptable method ( UNICEF ). Parental authority is crucial for raising children, but it does not entail the right to use violence ( ScienceDirect ). Parents have a responsibility to protect their children, but this must be balanced with respect for the child's autonomy and well-being. The father's actions in this...

Derailing women's lived experiences?

 derailing a woman's lived experiences? Whenever a man talks about his lived experience, he's somehow derailing or silencing or one-uping women? Whether they are in the same room or not, they both have their trauma that they want people to know. He can have his own platform to talk about his lived experience and still be told that he is "derailing women's lived experience" and that "men suffer less than women." if anything, those who are doing the silencing are the ones silencing men, not women. No one tells her she is derailing the men's lived experience, no one is telling her that her pain is statistically lower than his, and no one is trying to silence her. Now imagine how this sounds. A woman goes to an urgent care clinic because she is having chest problems. She got checked in and is being seen by a doctor. A man comes in and says he has chest problems. Is he derailing her pain? Was he silencing her? Was he making the doctor abandon her to atten...